Why I can't stop wearing my anti social hat

There's something incredibly satisfying about pulling on an anti social hat when you're just not feeling like small talk. We've all had those days where the coffee hasn't kicked in yet, or you're just running to the store for some milk and really don't want to explain your entire life story to a neighbor you haven't seen in three years. For me, that hat isn't just an accessory; it's a boundary. It's a way to tell the world, "Hey, I'm here, but I'm also kind of not." ...

May 14, 2026 · 7 min · Randall Chinwe